I recall the original fulfillment of the KS took a very long time once it started: There's just a large number of orders getting fulfilled, and some of us are ordering for multiple people (gifts for friends -- who'd have thought?).
Patience is all I can suggest, but at least we know the courier now
Mine did not arrive Friday, as UPS had suggested. Instead the tracking updates show UPS delivering it to the USPS, so apparently now it will be delivered with the mail, supposedly tomorrow.
Update in Kingston, Ontario. My copies of Ruins of the Lost Realm and replacement dice arrived last Friday (Nov. 4). The tracking had not caught up their location (they looked like they were still in Chicago when they arrived).