Tue 18 Mar 2025, 12:15
Although I've never had a Reddit account because, to me, Reddit is just 4chan with a budget large enough to pay Google for search returns. The wife was part of the Facebook group for Alien (and many other FL games) back in 2019 and left soon thereafter because the Moderator ignored repeated reports of one of his personal friends who leveled homo/transphobic attacks against us thinking she was a he and then when told, turned that into misogynistic vitriol.
These forums have always been well-moderated, but often times useless for balanced information because valid criticism is often lumped in with whining and hating.
Reading fans gush about what they love about something isn't very informative to those who want to read valid criticism before spending their time, money, energy, and resources on something.
I've been part of these forums for almost a decade, but my posting diminished long ago because I see them as far more of an echo chamber of fandom than a reasoned place of full spectrum discussion.
"Lurker" is a term I used in numerous forums from the Big Purple to Citizens of the Imperium to ENWorld to a few far less savory sites on which I registered and rarely posted. But, sadly for that humorous term, even it is jumped on as being passive aggressive or wotnot. So I'll say it this way instead...
I offer my eight farthings as an interested quiet reader: Stamping out criticism because it may breed negativity is an action which leads to a self-feeding saccharine tube.
Good moderators going back to the bygone days before Yahoo Groups was the peak of gaming communiqué are those who can step in and remind folks when necessary of the difference between whining, venting, frustration, and criticism. All are valid at times, but each have scaling values in any meritocracy.
I'll go back to my lurking now. Er, um... quiet reading.
"Se til helvete å komme dere vekk. Det er ikke en bikkje! Det er en slags TING!
Det imiterer en bikkje. Det er ikke virkelig! Kom dere vekk, IDIOTER!"